Guest post by Jenny Reyes
Note from Anne:
Even if this is for toddlers, older kids who need to improve on the skill can benefit from the activities below.
The original post can be found here.
As your toddler gets older, the development of their fine motor skills becomes even more crucial.
Finger strength, coordination and dexterity are terms often associated with this developmental aspect.
Apparently, building a toddler’s fine motor skills is a stepping stone to better performance in other development aspects, such as Math and Language (Writing in particular).
There are a lot of activities that help a toddler work on finger dexterity and make use of small muscle coordination.
A lot of the times we can inject fun into the equation, to make it even more interesting for them to try and do on a regular basis.
Here are a few suggestions to check out:
1. Play with Play-Doh.
Pinch, mold, roll, pound and grasp.
These motions strengthen a toddler’s pincer grip which is the foundation to the proper pencil hold. Also, Play-Doh is a venue to develop a child’s imagination and storytelling skills.
2. Age Appropriate Kumon Workbooks.
The First Steps workbooks Let’s Cut!, Let’s Sticker and Paste! and Let’s Fold! each have about 40 activities that focus on that specific function – all aimed to develop better hand control.
Alternate several of each activities per day to provide variety. Once they’ve exhausted these primers, you can explore the Basic Skills set which build on these activities further.
3. Let Toddlers to Snap, Zip, Button, and Tie Themselves Together.
Even if it’s more time-efficient to dress your toddler, think about the basic skills they miss out on when you do it for them.
Letting them zip up jackets or button shirts help with finger dexterity and mobility.
Just allot enough time for them to work through it themselves. The best part is, it’s an activity with no additional cost but has incremental long-term benefits.
4. Sort with Tweezers and an Ice Cube Tray.
Now here’s a fun activity that uses materials already in your home.
Take a clean ice cube tray, a pair of tweezers, buttons, little pompoms or colored cotton balls.
Ask your toddler to sort items into the tray slots by color, size, or quantity. Feel free to make up your own classifications for fun too.
The key to this activity is for your toddler to hold the tweezers using the proper pincer grip (thumb on one side, and the pointer and middle fingers on the other).
5. Download iPhone and iPad Activities.
While this may be a controversial topic for some parents, I’ve found good toddler-friendly applications that promote hand-eye coordination. Apart from building finger control, many are educational too.
Sam and I alternately work all these into her daily schedule as much as we can. In the last 8 months (As of the writing of this subject’s original post), we’ve all seen marked improvements and mastery in fine motor control.
Her teachers said that she spills less, she has a firmer grip on scissors, bottle caps and the like, and also has better pencil control.
Of course I don’t expect her to master these all at once, but it is a promising start for a three-year old.
Over-all it is a win-win situation for all parties involved. For toddlers, it makes learning necessary skills fun. For parents, any advancement in their children’s development is a win all on its own.
Author bio:
Jenny Reyes pens the blog, My Mommyology which is our featured blog of the month. She currently lives in Chapel Hill North Carolina, where she is a full-time student of the science of motherhood, with her two little girls as her prime teachers. She also moonlights as one of the partners in the marketing consultancy firm called Your Brand Story. Among other things, Jenny enjoys reading, traveling and scuba-diving.





Another wonderful post Anne!! I use some of these skills already with my toddler, and with my other kiddies when they were toddlers, thanks for sharing.
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Thank you for the comment! Would love to hear the other things you do with your kids too!

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These are all great ideas! I think I have some play-doh that I will get out for my toddler. (I’ll admit, it’s mine and I haven’t let her play with it yet!)
I’d love if you link this (and any other relevant post) to my Teaching Time for Toddlers link party–which is open all week!
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Thank you! Will keep this link in mind!
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Those are great tips. I personally let my 20mth old try out games on my android phone – learning phonics, and ipad. She also has learned how to dress herself, zipping, putting on the velcro straps on her shoes etc. Instead of playdough we use seeds and beans to practice pincer grabbing.
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Don’t you just love technology these days?
Beans are a great idea too! I’ll keep that in mind!
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These are great ideas! I love the “Sort with Tweezers and an Ice Cube Tray”. Might have to try that with my oldest.
I like to use our phones or the Kindle Fire with my son. He loves the toddler games, and puzzles (he’s gotten really good at real puzzles because of this).

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The puzzle apps on the phones / iPads are great particularly when you’re out and about and need something to keep them quiet. You don’t lose any pieces and they still learn something!
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This is so cool. I was seriously looking for something and really informative for a toddler mom like me. Many Thanks.
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I’m glad that it’s informative for you! Thanks for reading!
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This is a great post! My little guy at age 4 had to have brain surgery when he woke up he had many deficits one of which was he lost motor control down the right side of his body, and he was right handed. He is 6 now and come along way but he still in working hard at regaining complete motor control. We are constantly looking for fun ways to work on motor control with him to help strengthen his new dominate left hand and to regain control in the right. Great suggestions in this post.
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Hi Cheryl, nice to know your boy is doing well now after his surgery and I’m sure he’ll be able to regain his motor skills
Kids are very resilient!
Oh wow. I’m glad to hear that things have gone well since the surgery, and can only imagine the challenge you’ve all been through. My cousin (who’s 7) was in a similar situation recently and needs to rehabilitate the left side of her body. They do a lot of puzzles, shoe-tying and buttoning too and it’s helped.

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Great ideas! i work with a ton of students who have fine motor difficulties and have to go to OT services. A lot of the issues they have can be helped by the activities that you described. Great post!
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Hi there Hezzi-D! Isn’t it cool how simple activities can really help kids develop better?!
Thanks for leaving a comment and will be heading to your blog now.
Glad that these can help!
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Wonderful suggestions and comments!
Thank you, Paul! Have a great day
Thanks for dropping in Paul!
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Great information. Not sure if I need to put into practice. My almost 3 year old has exited the toddler stage and becoming a little girl. I think she might start writing within the next year.
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My son is 5 but still needs to improve on fine motor skills so these are applicable for older kids too. But if your little girl is doing well with her motor skills, then no need for these
Thanks for dropping by, Rich. See you around!
Now that you mention it, I should consider these skills with respect to my 8 year old son. Don’t tell him I posted this. We still hassle him about tying his shoes. LOL!
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That comment made me laugh! Sure I won’t tell him
I promise!
I taught in a school before and saw a few older kids that needed to improve their fine motor skills. Tying shoes is actually a tough thing to do.
By the way, tried visiting your blog but I couldn’t seem to.
My (humble) rule of thumb with my girls is that we work on the developmental aspect which they need help with the most. And we rotate. It could help to check and see and go back to them once in a while, even if it’s just a game.

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great post
as a dad of a four and a 5 month I will take a few of your ideas…..
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Nice to see dads over here
And wow, a 4 year old and 5 month old? You must be exhausted at home. Haha. Have a great day!
Those are a lot of kids! Good luck to you!

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Kumon rocks..
It does and it’s very effective
I cannot agree more! But it’s also work for the parent!

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That’s long time ago. But, my son like play doh. Nowadays, iPad would be great to help kids learn.
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The iPad is great but I worry that they lose a little “imagination” when the play with too much! Before the advent of the tablets, kids used their toys and imagination more while playing. Thanks for commenting Nicolas!
The iPad does have a lot of stuff on it for kids that will help!
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Great ideas -as you know we just made our own play dough. It’s so important to supervise the kids with these activities – good learning for all.
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Will look up your play dough recipe again… The thing is when we have that around, my kiddo asks me to mold it so he doesn’t really play with it. I get the fine tuning for my fine motor skills!!
I admire moms who take the time to make their own play-doh. Seriously! I can’t seem to bring myself to do it.

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Sort with Tweezers and an Ice Cube Tray!!LOVE IT its great for in the car to, not to messy =)
I do these thing with my older kids too —Keep their fine moter skills in tack!
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Yup I love the ice cube idea, Jenny’s very clever!
Thank you! But credit goes to Sam’s teacher who gave me the idea!

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My Mom is a physical therapist. Every time we visit she brings out an activity, one of the ones you listed or very similar, for my little ones to “play.” They don’t know they are fine tuning their skills because it is fun! I love anything fun that has a purpose!
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Hi Kimberly, I think anytime kids have fun while learning it’s great (for everybody)!
That is cool to have someone in your family who is keen on doing fun stuff with a purpose.
When the kids are older they will realize this and be grateful! 

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Great tips as always. I just love your site!
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Aww thanks, Regina
Your comments here are very much appreciated!
Hurray for Anne!

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Another excellent post! We are big fans of playdough in our house. I helped my kids develop their fine motor skills with my fear of their choking on finger foods. I cut the pieces so small they had no choice but to figure out how to pick them up if they wanted to eat.

I really like the tweezer sorting game idea, very smart!!
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That is very clever, Lynn, what a great tip!
Will try that too and let you know what happens.
We love the Kumon workbooks on cutting, pasting and folding! We also make our own play dough. Great list!
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Have not actually tried those Kumon books (on cutting, pasting and folding) but will check them out. Nice to see you back here, Mariel!
The Kumon books make for very nice sit-down time. Sam can go through them like there’s no tomorrow.
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My daughter loved Play-doh so much, she even plays it until now that she’s about to turn 7. Plus, I like the fact that we have iPads and iPhones now, and kids can play amazing applications and games that you can’t find on any other playbooks.

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Welcome to Green Eggs & Moms, Trisha! What applications are best for kids to play with?
I don’t think that Play-doh ever really gets old! Even I find it therapeutic sometimes!

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This is great! Where do you learn all of these? How early can you start? Hehe
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There are a lot of great resources for improving fine motor skills on the net – I can’t answer where Jenny got hers though haha. But I don’t think there’s a minimum age for when to start! The earlier, the better. Hope to see you around here more, Tala.
I errr…. Well… over time I just noticed and observed other moms and molded some of the things into what interests the girls. I started Jamie off with just picking up colorful pieces on the floor, or giving her little bits of food to put in her mouth. I think for as long as you can see them trying to already reach for an object with purpose you can start working on the skills already.

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Let me try this one!
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Let me know how it goes